Venting Where I Know No One Will Care

Today has been especially hard for me.  The fact that I feel like my life no longer makes sense seems to have caught up with me.  Most of the time I can hold it inside and just fill time to not think.  Last night I read and then again this morning but then my head started to hurt so I had to get back into real life.  I filled time with dishes and such and then when Rich came home there was dinner to be made. After that it was just like every other night, sitting around not knowing what to do with myself and listening to him play that stupid game and then Wheel of Fortune, blah blah blah. I let myself be sad for a bit and then I took a trip down memory lane by looking at photos, not the best way to feel better but it killed time. Also made me realize that I have lived a life, not always good, not always bad, but a life none the less. So maybe I am just done with life, who knows.

Simple Rules To Try To Navigate Life

I think we all find life a bit hard to navigate. Maybe if we went back to a simpler time it would be easier.  To not get caught up in a whirlwind of crazy we probably should pay attention to some simple logical rules or guidelines if you will that might just help. Do the best you can in whatever you do(this does not mean say it is the best you can do if your heart knows different). Do not cause harm to others(it is basically causing yourself harm so just don't do it). Keep yourself and your environment clean(this might seem silly but no living thing wants to live in filth). You might not think the last thing matters if you are already living a life surrounded by dirt and chaos but it does, you have just pushed the fact that it bothers you behind a door in your mind and trying to not care is keeping you from other things in life. Balance work and play whenever possible(too much of either will have you fighting yourself in your own mind). It would be better to not muddy your mind with alcohol or drugs, they are a powerful seducer but do not contribute to your life and well being(they really don't even when they try to convince you otherwise).  If you cannot be kind to a fellow human being avoid interaction with said human(the unkindness you show them harms you more than you know). Accept your weaknesses and move on(this is part of doing the best you can always). If you have made yourself responsible for another human being(child, partner, etc.) or a pet of some sort, do not shirk that responsibility. If you did not want it you should not have accepted it. Remember that your point of view in life is just that, your point of view. Others have their own point of view and theirs might just be as right as yours. Take care of your physical health and your mental health(things will and do go wrong with these fragile human bodies). 

Do not be mean
Do not cause harm
Do not take what is not yours
Do not make excuses that you know are false
Do not expect more from others than you do from yourself
Do not give up when you have just started
Do not use alcohol or drugs as a crutch


Do get up every day with hope
Do give yourself time to figure things out
Do laugh even if you are sad
Do cry even if you are happy
Do try to care about others
Do accept that you are only a human
Do move forward even if you fail
Do ask for help even if it isn't always forthcoming
Do believe that you are important because you are 

I Should Have Just Expected This

I took the week off to get stuff done that should have been done ten years ago.  Well that didn't happen and the reason is another story all together that I just don't want to address at this moment.  So instead of the doing what I expected I was able to use the time to do Fall and Halloween decorating which I love and hate all at the same time.  I hate the hauling out of things and the putting away of stuff to get ready.  I love when it all starts coming together because it appeals to my sense of whimsy.  Trying to get to the Christmas lights so I could have light on my graveyard was a pain in the you know what but the result was so worth it. It really does look cool.  Rich took a couple of days off so he could fix the floor in the washing machine area and that is getting done at a good pace. Amazing that the hole in the floor is finally getting fixed because the washer blew a hose and I think maybe because I was off too. You would think that this week should make me feel good but I can feel myself falling into a depressed mood as usual, I just wish I could feel optimistic or a least somewhat content for longer than a second.

Third try is the charm

I really have better stuff to do then this but here I am.  I promise I will stop soon.

Oh My Goodness Come On

Well did a trial of linking but to no avail, let's give it another go.

Why Is This Technology So Hard For Me

I want to link my blog to facebook so that when i post something it appears there. Can't really understand how to do it and am getting frustrated. I probably should just leave it alone as some of the time my posts on my blog are a little dark.

Stress and Anxiety The Sneak Attackers

We all experience stress and anxiety on occasion, some of us more than others.  Those of us that deal with these two demons in life frequently, have learned to shut them behind doors in our brains so we can function in a some what normal manner. Unfortunately the locks on these doors are always faulty and wham,in the middle of a mundane normal part of the day, here

come the little demons pinching, poking and harassing us. If we are lucky we ignore them and keeping on presenting a normalcy for those around us and they sometimes retreat back behind their doors with the faulty locks. We are temporarily able to function and even find a bit of joy but are aware the stress and anxiety demons will be back and maybe this time they just might refuse to be put behind doors ever again.